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Senior Fellow: Council on Contemporary Families

Helping families navigate estrangement, conflict, and reconciliation.

Forty-five years helping families move through conflict toward resolution

Dr. Joshua Coleman, psychologist and author
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The Bestseller

When your adult child stops talking to you

Rules of Estrangement uncovers the five primary pathways to estrangement, and shows you exactly when to reach out and when to give space.

“One of the best books on estrangement named by researchers.”

The New York Times
Out Now

My new book is out now

Estrangement Reconciliation Therapy lays out a compassionate, structured approach to family cutoff — practical tools to process grief, move past blame, and open the door to healing.

“Estrangement Reconciliation Therapy is a gorgeous piece of thinking and writing—a life raft for families trying to find their way back to each other.”

— Abigail Shrier, New York Times bestselling author of Bad Therapy
Estrangement Reconciliation Therapy: A New Model for Treating Family Conflict, by Joshua Coleman, PhD
The Workbook

Insight is only the beginning

Breakthrough provides practical exercises, strategies, and tools for healing from estrangement with dignity, strength, and resilience.

  • Step-by-step guided practices
  • Print or digital editions
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Speaking

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Speaking on family estrangement, modern family relationships, reconciliation and the changing bonds between parents and adult children.

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Podcast

Family Troubles Podcast

Family Troubles with Dr. Joshua Coleman is a free podcast exploring the intricate dynamics of family life — interviews with academics, therapists, and guests navigating their own family stories.

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