I was looking back on this great forum a few days ago, and it seemed strange that we had no new posts. What happened? Did we all cure ourselves? Did we give up? Or did we just stop singing the blues?
Well, I must admit, and boast a little that I did a little bit of all three. Honestly, I mulled over and administered the advice of most of y'all. However, I truly believe that changing my attempts toward a better friendship with my adult children was the best! I stopped everything. No contact, no calling, no texting, no begging, and no emailing was the best advice from this forum.
My son is at least 70% better. He stopped asking for money, stopped getting in trouble, defends me with the two mothers of my two grandchildren, checks in to see how I'm doing, still smokes weed, but goes to work everyday and works hard. His performance reports are stellar. Hell, this forum helped me! Who knew that the only way I could help him, was to stop helping him? I hope y'all are all seeing a little success too.
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