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My mother is still angry after 52 years! My biological father was stationed in Europe in the US army. He and my mother were seeing each other for a little while and "loved" each other at the time.  When I was conceived, my mother told my father she was pregnant and never heard from him again. He left for the USA and shortly after arriving home married his high school sweetheart. They have been together ever since. My mother married a US soldier who adopted me. I found out he wasn't my biological father when I was 14. My mother told me that if I ever wanted to find my bio father, she had the address and would gladly give it to me. When I was 18, we returned to the US. I am now 51 and found my bio father with my mother's knowledge and her help. Now she isn't happy I found him and is still very angry towards him for leaving her. She doesn't want me to have anything to do with him.I understand it was difficult for her back then. I also understand that they were both VERY young when this all happened and I am willing to forgive my bio father. She, however, is not. How do I continue a relationship with my bio father and not have my mother angry?