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To Kate on estrangement
October 15, 2018
3:38 pm
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April 17, 2018
8:47 am

Hey Kate, you are NOT alone with this sort of thing. Try this one on for size and you'll feel a little better. Married in 1980, 2 boys and in 1994, divorced and I got sole custody of my kids. (wife - drugs, booze, boyfriend) I worked, did laundry, homework, housecleaning, food shopping, sports, etc. etc. Got remarried in 1998. My oldest decided at about 16 he wasn't going to school anymore, dropped out, STAYED out all night, came home when he felt like it. I warned him for a year or so, IF YOU DON"T WANT TO FOLLOW THE RULES OF THE HOUSE, FIND ANOTHER PLACE TO LIVE. (with your mother, the State, a friend - I GAVE HIM CHOSES, right) Well after a minor Police incident at 18, I told him to pack his stuff and get out. HE WAS WARNED!  About 12-15 years ago we had a relationship, but because he overheard something I said?.. we are estranged now for about 10 years. I have no phone number, address, email, NOTHING!  I now have 2 GRAND DAUGHTERS that I've seen at a wedding, but neither him or his airhead WIFE ever informed me of their birth and I have NOT met either of them to date.  On a good note, my younger son and I are very close, he has a WONDERFUL wife and she is due with their first baby in Sept. I never imagined in my wildest dreams I would have a child that couldn't care less and then has children and doesn't let me know. I think he's a piece of crap and the DISRESPECT is unbelievable! I would rather  be DEAD then disrespect my parents. They are both gone now, as well as my only brother. It all stinks and hurts everybody!  You take care Kate and no you are not alone!

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