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The situation from the other side of the story
January 18, 2014
10:36 am

Hi Kate,

I just wanted to say, way to go standing by your husband while he did the courageous and awesome thing and took care of himself!

You are just the kind of "evil" and "dysfunctional" folks should be.

And so is your husband. What an excellent list.

Thanks for sharing!


January 11, 2014
2:36 pm

My husband is an estranged son.  I am the 'evil' DIL who 'broke up a loving family.  I am the 'mentally ill DIL who is from a dysfunctional family and simply does not know how to behave in my husbands ''close and loving'' family. Quote from my DH mother et al


However, since going no contact 2 years ago, my husband has:

**stopped binging and purging

**stopped self harming

**no longer has anxiety attacks for seven days ahead of a family function

**no longer has depressive episodes

**says he now wants to live

**is now less afraid of showing his feelings for fear they will be laughed at (still working on that one.


Loving and close they may consider themselves.  Crushing and smothering is how it was for him




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