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Close but now estranged
March 23, 2016
11:03 am
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I am sorry, Kylie. This is a loss. You may have raised a selfish and self centered child who was just using you for money. If you truly gave her everything you had, this is not really a blessing to her. If she has not had to suffer and struggle and learn to cope and overcome, this makes her lack the skills to negotiate this hard life we all have. If there has been no conflict, no arguments, then she'll come around again. When she wants something. You do have to take care of yourself and demand respectful behavior. And like you said, stop looking at her online FB page or whatever. Its hard, I know. Sending you cyber hugs.

March 21, 2016
5:58 pm
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My daughter and I were very close.  Last June she stopped talking to me.  I had several events happening in my life at the time, my father got diagnoised with stage 4 cancer, and my husbands chronical illness returned as well as financial problems plaguing us.  I still dont know why she stopped talking to me.

She is a 27 y/o woman with a college education.  I had been sending her money and had to stop, so I wonder if this is why she stopped.  There are different reasons I think but ill never know for sure.  She basically just dropped off the face of the earth.  I still look online to try and find her and gave up asking my ex inlaws, they would not give me answers.  I reached out several times by text and phone calls with no reply.

One day, i reached a point where i told myself that iput the ball in her court to contact me, and that i couldnt worry about her anymore. Its her choice as an adult.  I gave this girl everything i had.  Now im just brokenhearted.

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