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I think lots of men get married to replace mom, with benefits. This is a very immature approach to marriage, but in doing so they feel “disappointed” when women of today try and set their “fantasy” straight. Some of these men even refuse to work carrying the “fantasy” of total care and subservence to the “I am a teenager” level. Those who do work, often think that is ALL they need to contribute. Some, like mine, do a “bit” around the house and call themselves, “he-men” compared to “other men” who do nothing. I think, rather than see how smoothly things can go if they do more, they see it as a contest to see if they can do less and still get “benefits’ from an exhausted and hurt, and angry woman. Many are so bold as to compete with their own children or a “busy, overloaded womans chores” for their “me time” and to add insult to injury, expect a hot time in the sack, asap, getting up to complain and arm chair quarterback how their wives could “do more”.
These same men complain loudly to anyone who will listen how “mean, naggy, or bitchy or cold in the bedroom” their wives were, and try and get out of child support or alimony, which is the states way of saying wives have RECOGNIZED value and contribution to the house hold that does compute into monetary value. Of course, these men go forth to marry again, after finding their “freedom” from marriage doesn’t solve all their problems, only to repeat the cycle of procreating without responsibility.
It is very sad and needs to be dealt with as a society. Women of the world are overworked, treated as slaves, and often forgotten in the shuffle of a “me, me” society. Everyone should be concerned why the most advanced (at least at one time) country in the world is so backward in the homefront skills. A work ethic……..needs to be reintroduced in the American male, or our country is in big big trouble. 
I have no doubt if war were to come to America, it would be the women expected to shoulder the baby and the broom, and fight it. Wake up men of America.