My name is Jay and I was reading all your comments and just sat here crying. How in this day and age, must we go through this after having given our children the best.
My daughter who is 45y/o has for reasons unknown to me, threw her loving husband out of her home, sold her house, friendship with a no-good sort of man, told me to get out of her life or she will call the Police to take a AVO against me and her husband of 20 years. This has all come to me as a great shock. My daughter was the most beautiful child I know, loving, beautiful, respectable, caring, perfect wife and mother and the most wonderful daughter. I had a call from her accusing me of being the cause of her life failure.
I left her abusive father after 30 years of marriage and remarried 16 years ago. She has despised my husband from the day she heard that I was getting married. She has threatened me over the years and kept the grandchildren from seeing me, unless I left him and came to live with her. She has started drinking a lot and became abusive with my partner. I could never have gone back to live with her, I had my own life to live. She started to put the children up against me especially the 18 year old. This child has grown up seeing her mothers' anger and now hates me as well as my husband. My children have always been the centre of my life. I have not seen them for 3 moths and all this has now left me empty. I cry everyday and feel like I have lost my children. She told me once the house is sold, I will never see her or the grandchildren again.
I have prayed so hard and cried to the Lord to intervene and help me. What do I do?