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	<title>Dr. Joshua Coleman &#187; Marriage</title>
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		<title>Fighting in Front of the Children</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2010/02/fighting-in-front-of-the-children/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 02:11:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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Many parents worry about whether they&#8217;re hurting their kids by fighting in front of them. Join Dr. Coleman on View from the Bay as he discusses the Do&#8217;s and Don&#8217;ts!
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<p>Many parents worry about whether they&#8217;re hurting their kids by fighting in front of them. <a href="http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/video?id=6787563&amp;section=view_from_the_bay">Joi</a><a href="http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/video?id=6787563&amp;section=view_from_the_bay">n Dr. Coleman on View from the Bay</a> as he discusses the Do&#8217;s and Don&#8217;ts!</p>
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		<title>John Stossel Interviews Dr. Coleman on 20-20, Men, Parenting and Housework</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2010/02/john-stossel-interviews-dr-coleman-on-20-20-men-and-housework/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 06:37:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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Discusses Dr. Coleman&#8217;s book &#8220;The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework.&#8221; Also shows Dr. Coleman&#8217;s work with 2 couples.
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<p>Discusses Dr. Coleman&#8217;s book &#8220;The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework.&#8221; Also shows Dr. Coleman&#8217;s work with 2 couples.</p>
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		<title>Why Do Marriages Fail?</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2010/02/what-can-damage-a-happy-marriage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lack of communication and not spending time  are two ways to  thoroughly damage an otherwise healthy relationship.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lack of communication and not spending time  are two ways to  thoroughly damage an otherwise healthy relationship.<br />
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		<title>AOL Coaches: How Can Sharing Household Chores Benefit My Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2010/01/aol-coaches-how-can-sharing-household-chores-benefit-my-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 10:41:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joshua Coleman, AOL Kids and Family Coach, explains how small changes in the way you divide household chores can help improve relations with your partner.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joshua Coleman, AOL Kids and Family Coach, explains how small changes in the way you divide household chores can help improve relations with your partner.</p>
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<p>How Can Sharing Household Chores Benefit My Relationship?</p>
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		<title>Now That We Are Parents, How Can We Keep Our Marriage Strong?</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/10/how-can-we-keep-our-relationship-strong-once-we-start-having-children/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 11:08:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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Having children opens a whole new area of your relationship. Make sure to work as a team to raise the child and doing house work. If one partner is bearing most of the responisbilites, it can make for a very stressful atmosphere which can be negative for the baby as well as the couple&#8217;s relationship.
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<p>Having children opens a whole new area of your relationship. Make sure to work as a team to raise the child and doing house work. If one partner is bearing most of the responisbilites, it can make for a very stressful atmosphere which can be negative for the baby as well as the couple&#8217;s relationship.</p>
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		<title>What Are the Five Most Important Rules for a Good Marriage?</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/08/what-are-some-tips-to-having-a-positive-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/08/what-are-some-tips-to-having-a-positive-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 11:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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Marriage requires you to be 100% selfish and 100% selfless.  You have to make sure all of your own needs are attended to, but you also have to ensure that all of your partner&#8217;s needs are met as well. 
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<p>Marriage requires you to be 100% selfish and 100% selfless.  You have to make sure all of your own needs are attended to, but you also have to ensure that all of your partner&#8217;s needs are met as well. </p>
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		<title>My Partner Will Not Respect Me</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/06/how-can-i-communicate-better-with-my-spouse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 09:08:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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If your spouse is critical, verbally abusive, or an overall poor communicator, the first thing you need to do is get his or her attention. 
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<p>If your spouse is critical, verbally abusive, or an overall poor communicator, the first thing you need to do is get his or her attention. </p>
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		<title>Some Tips for Engaged Couples</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/05/what-are-some-tips-for-engaged-couples/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/05/what-are-some-tips-for-engaged-couples/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 09:05:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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You have heard it many times before, but believe it: marriage is no fairy tale.  It will be difficult, it will take work, but it is worth it.  Accept the difficulties, and you will reap the benefits.
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<p>You have heard it many times before, but believe it: marriage is no fairy tale.  It will be difficult, it will take work, but it is worth it.  Accept the difficulties, and you will reap the benefits.</p>
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		<title>What Should I Do in the Middle of a Fight?</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/05/when-is-it-appropriate-to-walk-away-from-a-fight/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 08:59:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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Taking a &#8220;time out&#8221; from a fight is a great way to give yourselves time to clam down and collect your thoughts.
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<p>Taking a &#8220;time out&#8221; from a fight is a great way to give yourselves time to clam down and collect your thoughts.</p>
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		<title>How do I save my relationship after an affair?</title>
		<link>http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/2009/04/how-can-i-reconcile-with-my-spouse-after-i-have-done-something-i-regret/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 08:53:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Joshua Coleman</dc:creator>
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After an affair, the first thing you must try to understand is how deeply you&#8217;ve hurt your partner.
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<p>After an affair, the first thing you must try to understand is how deeply you&#8217;ve hurt your partner.</p>
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