Author Archives: Dr. Joshua Coleman

Appearances: 2009

A summary of some appearances from 2009: Jan 19 Grandma in the House NPR On Point with host Tom Ashbrook and historian Stephanie Coontz Jan 27 Life Part 2: Boomer Grandparents PBS Taping for fall, 2009 segment Jan 28 Keeping the Family Together in an Economic Downturn ABC 7 View from the Bay Feb 25 When Mom Moves In ABC 7 View from the Bay March 19 Keeping Your [...]
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When I Was Your Age, I Was an Adult! Huffington Post

I saw this caption in a recent New Yorker cartoon and thought that it captured the way that so many of today’s parents feel about their grown children. Have children become lazier? I don’t think so. When I was growing up, you didn’t have to go to college to be able to get a decent [...]
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Seven Common Mistakes of Parenting Adult Children

In the past 100 years we have gone from seeing children as robust and benefiting from the rigors of life to seeing them as fragile and in need of protection. In addition, while parents in the early 20th century wanted their children to conform, respect the parents’ authority, and to fear them, today’s parents want [...]
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Top 5 Signs You May be Heading for Divorce

Studies show that people typically wait six years too long to get into couple’s therapy. I am an eternal optimist, but waiting to get help is a dangerous undertaking. It allows too much time to build up new experiences of hurt, resentment, or alienation; experiences that can weaken the long-term bond of a relationship. Top 5 [...]
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Stepmothering: What You Need to Know

Being a stepmother is hard, and often, thankless work. While some stepmothers are able to establish close and comfortable relationships, many struggle with the role. In addition, children are typically more tolerant and accepting of stepfathers than stepmothers. Here are some important reasons why stepmothering can be such a struggle: Loyalty Factor: Children often have intense [...]
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WHEN PARENTS HURT

Get advice and support from others who are struggling with adolescent or adult children who won’t talk to them or who are always critical and rejecting; parents whose partners or ex-spouses interfere with their being good parents; learning to forgive yourself for parenting mistakes; adolescent or adult children who aren’t in line to create a [...]
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IMPERFECT HARMONY

A place for people who are considering divorce or for those who want to learn how to solve the conflicts in their marriage. Discuss how to recover from an affair, when should you divorce, when are children affected by divorce; how are children affected by troubled marriages, and other issues.
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MARRIED WITH TWINS

Talk to other parents who are trying to keep their marriages healthy while living in this very challenging environment.
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LAZY HUSBANDS/CRITICAL WIVES

Discuss conflicts around housework, money, chores, and differences around parenting. How to get help and support from your spouse; the right and wrong way to communicate; what’s a fair division of labor; how to solve parenting differences, etc.
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Postpartum Depression

Kelly Willenberg is the President of the National Organization of Mothers of Twins Club. She suffered from postpartum depression after her twins were born. “I had terrible PPD, but I didn’t seek treatment. The most shocking thing for me was that I resented the babies and didn’t want them to be around. It was an [...]
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    When Mom Earns More than Dad

    NPR Talk of the Nation: How women’s increased economic and educational power are changing marriage.

    On Point: Tom Ashbrook Interviews Dr. Coleman and NYU Sociologist Kathleen Gerson

    NPR: Tom Ashbrook interviews Dr Coleman and Kathleen Gerson on “Women Bringing Home the Bacon”

    PBS Life Part 2: Cut Off from the Grandkids

    Boomer Grandparenting on PBS: LIfe Part 2

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