What are some tips for new step-families?

Coming into a step family or blended family can be a challenge for every member of the new family. The main thing to remember is that you are not there to replace the old family and its members. You are simply coming together to form a new family that may have separate values or traditions than the previous families.

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  1. Posted April 28, 2010 at 1:27 pm | Permalink

    This is what I recommend for new stepparents:

    1. Make a strong effort to befriend the ex. He/she can be your best advocate with the children (or your worst nightmare).

    2. Discuss parenting differences with your spouse privately, never in front of the children. Defer to the bio parent whenever possible.

    3. Put the couple relationship first; invest the time to nurture your relationship (you don’t have the benefit of child-free time after the honeymoon). Trust your spouse to always have your best interest (and your child’s) at heart. If you don’t believe this, you should enlist the help of a professional.

    I’d close with “good luck”, but I know luck has nothing to do with it. I’ve been there, 10 years and going strong!

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